it can be upsetting to see people talk about how christmas is ‘family time’ but know this: you do not need them to be happy. do not let that make you feel obliged to spend time with people who hurt you.
if you make fun of sia because she doesn’t show her face (never mind the fact that she has anxiety and a medial condition that affects her facial features) but you don’t say anything about daft punk….. hm……